Maybe you are newly single and the group of couples you and your ex-Sweetie used to socialize with have dropped you like a hot potato. Or they still invite you, though it feels like pity, and you are always the only single there. Or they invite some other single in the hopes that the two of you will pair up, and it is so embarrassingly obvious that any potential wilts under the spotlight of attention. Or then again, you wonder what your friends really think of you, that it would even occur to them you might be interested in him or her.

Or maybe you've been single for a long time, or never married, maybe even never really got started dating in the first place, and you are miserably out of step with people your own age. Not only have you not had anything that even your soft-hearted Grandma would call a date in God knows how long, you're not sure you'd recognize the opportunity if a date presented itself. The thought of a date — a DATE??!! — is paralyzing.

Maybe you have lots of same-sex friends to pal around with (and you are all single and moan continuously about your unattached state), or perhaps your friends have paired off, one after another, until you are the last one left single. Or maybe you are rather shy or cautious about new people or strange social situations. Whatever the reasons, you are bored, lonely, and wishing you had more fun in your life.

If any of this sounds familiar, then you could use Kathryn Lord's newest book for singles, her Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner. Find out how Kathryn built a social circle of close, interesting, and supportive friends, just for when she needed them most.

In Kathryn's Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner, you'll learn how to:

• Build a circle of friends through entertaining.
• Find the social action by becoming the center of it.
• Create an ever-expanding invitation list.
• Use your parties as a way of approaching and connecting with interesting new people — and possible dates and mates.

Here's what Laura M in St. Louis, MO had to say after reading Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner:

And from Laura again, two weeks later:

What happens next? You'll read all about it in my Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner. But here's a hint: That first party did not turn out as I hoped.

Carmen in Chicago writes:

From Rachel in Baton Rouge:

Why re-invent the wheel? Use Kathryn's simple step-by-step methods to build your own social circle by entertaining

• Plan the nuts and bolts of your parties in the simplest way imaginable.
• Design a simple menu (for cooks and non-cooks alike) that guests will devour.
• Use Kathryn's methods for calculating food quantities, her shopping list form, and even Kathryn's guest-tested recipes.
• Get inspired with Kathryn's idea's for "party spin - offs" — other kinds of get-togethers that your new friends would enjoy.

Here's what Kathryn's Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner will do for you:

• You'll learn how to become a relaxed and gracious host.
• By providing such a welcome experience for others, you gain a social life yourself.
• You'll make friends that you would never have met otherwise -- Kathryn's method of steadily and effortlessly expanding your invitation list will bring unexpected treasures into your circle.
• The gratitude of others: Most people wish they could meet more congenial folks, too, and will appreciate and envy your energy and social efforts.
• Grateful people feel obligated and will invite you to events in return.
• As a host who brings others together, you become the "Center of the Action" and someone who others think of when fun is in the making.
• Since most people find successful entertaining a complete mystery, they will think you are a genius. But they never need to know your secret: Your soon-to-be well-worn copy of Kathryn's Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner
• And best of all, by learning how to bring an infinite number of new people into your life, you'll have another avenue for meeting your Sweetheart! Who knows??!! And party friends make GREAT wedding guests.

Here's what Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner WON'T do:

• Create your invitation list — but it WILL give you lots of ideas on how to build a great list yourself.
• Send the invitations — but it WILL tell you how to do so, and you won't believe how easy it is!
• Plan the menu — but it WILL give you an easy to follow structure, lists of things to serve, menu and shopping list forms, guidelines for quantities, and even recipes!
• Cook the meal — but it WILL tell you how to do it, and even give menu ideas for the non-cook!
• Clean and decorate your house — but it WILL tell you what you can get away with and what you can't, and everything stays simple, simple, simple!

Are you still undecided?

Are you still wondering if Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner is the book for you? Are you hesitant to pay $19.95 for the answers to what you need to know?

Here's My 100% Guarantee:

If this book isn't all that I have promised and more, if what I have written does not get you moving towards what you say you want, then I will give you your money back. No questions asked. No obligation on your part. The whole price that you paid, every penny.

That's right. If you buy Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner and you are not completely satisfied with what you read, I'll refund your money.

How could you ask for more than that? I am even sure that my book will SAVE you $19.95 on entertaining costs, not to mention the wonderful friends you will accumulate. Who can place a dollar value on friends?

A movie and popcorn cost almost that much. And parties are a lot more fun than a movie alone. You can have if all for the price of this book —

From Beth in Cincinnati:

This is it, your last chance:

I've done all I can to convince you that Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner is just what you need — and only $19.95 as a downloadable ebook, $24.95 plus postage for a hard copy mailed to you.

Think of what will happen if you don't order Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner — what will happen? Nothing, most likely. Except more nights at home alone. And nothing is what you have too much of anyway.

You want something. In fact, you want more than something. You want a social life. You want friends. And you want love. My book Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner can help you get it.

The next step is up to you. I hope you take it. Because if you buy — and use — Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner, you'll have fun.

All my best wishes for friends — and love — in your future,

P. S. Remember, Sweethearts may come and go, but friends last. You can widen your circle by entertaining. Looking for Action? The Find a Sweetheart Party Planner will show you how.