Yesnoyesnoyesno - No wonder she—and he—are confused
It’s so important to get clear when you are thinking about dating, clear about what you are looking for, clear about whether you really want to do the search at all. Here’s a note from a single who REALLY needs to do some clarifying:
Hi Kathryn— Well, of course I wish I had someone to celebrate Valentines Day, but I’m not trying to meet guys too much, but also, when I meet them, I’m excited to get to know them and hope we both like each other, but am afraid of dissapointment. So far I’ve been disappointed for different reasons, or that they’re not acting like I wish they would, or saying the right things to make me fall in love with them. I’m not picky, but I am looking for something and I guess when a man comes along that makes me feel that comfort and security and excitement, then I will just know, but so far, haven’t came across that, someone that goes out of their way to want to please me, impress me, love me, etc. etc. I guess I wish I knew the secret of what it takes to have a guy connect with you and actually fall in love with you.
That’s all for now they’re not really questions, just how I feel.. Hopefully you can give me some insight or advice on different things. Thank you, Kathryn
Phyllis
